Good Dream Ideas

Good Dream Ideas

Do I really mean Good Dream Ideas, not the usual “get good ideas from dreams”? Yes, and the article below is what I’m talking about.

Thinking back, the first Buxton Deporter work was conceived from a dream. “Dreamwalkers” was later renamed “Dreamriders” due to the appearance of other works, and one dance company, using the name “Dreamwalkesr”.

Writers can be inspired by dreams, as some have a vivid and “real” quality and may have a beginning-middle-end structure like a draft to a story. So, why not write that story if you have those dreams?

If you’re a writer looking for new inspiration, why not try to provoke dreams that you can develop while dreaming? A lucid dream!

What Is The Meaning Of My Dreams

That is a common question. Yet, it seems, with lucid dreaming, that a writer might initiate a dream with a certain idea, and consciously

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create the meaning she/he wants.

Think you might try that? Maybe you will, after reading the following.

Experiencing Lucid Dreams: Expanding Our Lives Through Lucid Dreaming

Dreaming is a completely natural experience; in fact it is a fundamental part of being human. Each and every one of us experiences a dream state when we sleep. Some of us are quite proficient at remembering and retaining the dream experience, while others claim that they “Do Not Dream” because they experience a complete absence of any dream memories.

Regardless of whether we recall our dreams or not, each of us experiences several dream states during the course of our daily sleep. The dreams that we each experience come to us in a wide range of

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styles and forms. The focus of our dreams can range from the mundane to the incredibly exciting and thrilling. Many people experience something frightening when they are asleep; these terrifying dreams are commonly referred to as nightmares or night terrors. At other times we experience dreams that are exciting and exhilarating, or even erotic. Unfortunately, the majority of our regular dreaming could be classified as trivial or mundane.

Many people often view dreams as a mental “sorting out” of the events found in their daily lives. Still others believe that God or some other higher power imparts dreams to us, and that dreams explainunconscious mind dream content issues that are occurring in their lives, or even foretell events in the future. On the complete opposite side, other people often believe that their dreams are simply links to the thought held in their unconscious minds.

According to scientific studies, all humans dream on a regular basis. What is different among us is our ability to recall our dreams. Some of us can quickly and accurately recall several dreams from one night. While others have difficulty recalling any dream images at all. Some people go far beyond simple dream recall, and can even control the events that occur within their dreams. This ability is known as Lucid Dreaming.

What Is Lucid Dreaming?

A Lucid Dream is a dream in which the dreamer realizes that they are in fact dreaming, and achieves a state of “Conscious Awareness” within the dream. Often this allows the dreamer to then take control of the dream and determine what happens. This ability to have Lucid Dreams allows us to gain knowledge of what we experience when we are asleep.

Lucid Dreaming usually allows a person to control the flow of events

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within the dream. However, the degree of control experienced will vary from person to person and from dream to dream. So sometimes you will have more control over your dreams then you will at others. The two things that are constant within a Lucid Dream are:

1) You will have some degree of control over what happens within the dream.

2) You will be aware that you are not awake, and that you are in fact dreaming.

A Lucid Dreamer may not always have the ability to fully control their dreams. However, they will be far more likely to affect changes within a dream than a person who does not practice lucid dreaming would be able to accomplish. It is important to remember that having Lucid Dreams does not necessarily mean you will be able to fully control the dream, but you will certainly be able to experience the Dream while being aware that it is in fact a dream.

Lucid Dreaming can be done by anyone. Yes that’s right – Anyone. Some people find it easier to get started than others, but with some practice and a little perseverance anyone will be able to experience Lucid Dreams. The ability to elicit a Lucid Dream State is simply just a matter of practicing and training yourself to differentiate between when you are awake and when you are dreaming.

Many people are initially attracted to Lucid Dreaming because it offers a simple and inexpensive (Free!! Yippie!!) outlet for us to lucid ream adventureexperience our fantasies. Lucid Dreaming provides us with an opportunity for adventure and gives us a place to experience all of our deepest desires. It gives us a place to play with our creativity and it provides us with access to our subconscious minds.

Dreams provide the most vivid mental images that most people will ever experience. A Lucid Dream state gives us direct access to these experiences. Once you start experimenting with Lucid Dreams you will discover that you just can’t get enough.

You will find that you yearn to have more Lucid Dream experiences.

Why Would I Want to Become a Lucid Dreamer?

The most amazing thing about lucid dreaming is that it can give you full control over everything that happens inside of your dreams. Essentially, you are the Boss; you are in complete control over your entire dream world. When you are in your dream world you can do anything that you want.

Have you ever wanted to fly?

Go Ahead!

Want to swim underwater for hours on end?

No one’s stopping you!

Is that building or mountain in your way?

Simply jump over it!

Some people are able to gain such a complete level of control over their dreams that they are able to actually create and form their own dream worlds. This gives the dreamer complete control over every aspect of their dreams. This opens up the possibility to the dreamer to experience, or “Live Out”, any conceivable fantasy or experience that they may desire.

The only limits to what you can do in your Lucid Dreams are those imposed by your imagination (and its your dream world so why would you put any limits on anything!!) Remember, all of these things your dreamworldare happening in YOUR dream world, none of these things are happening outside of your own mind. But just because they are not “Real” it certainly does not mean that they are not a whole bunch of fun.

What Are The Benefits of Lucid Dreaming?

One of the most obvious benefits of Lucid Dreaming is the fact that you are in control of your dreams. You get to do what you want, you are in charge. As we discussed in the section “Why Would I Want to Become a Lucid Dreamer?”, The only limit to what you can do in your Lucid Dreams are those imposed by your imagination. So if you have ever wanted to take a trip to the Moon or to Mars, or perhaps meet a celebrity like Paris Hilton or Brad Pitt – Now is the time. And Best of all – Its All Free!!

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Another great benefit is that you can use all of this time for productive tasks. That right, the average person who lives to the age of 80 will spend 20 Years ASLEEP!!! Can you imaging, 20 full years sleeping, incredible. Well, by using Lucid Dreaming you will be able to regain a portion of that lost time. You can use your Lucid Dreams for any number of tasks. You can use it for fun and recreation, take a flight around the world (you won’t even need a plane), See the world and meet new people (even celebrities) all from the comfort of your own bed.

Besides being a whole bunch of fun, Lucid Dreaming also provides you with some great chances to explore the inner workings of your own mind. Its important to understand that the time you regain by using Lucid Dreaming can also be used for more “Concrete” undertakings. Are you trying to learn a new skill or improve on an existing talent? Why not practice it while you are in your Lucid Dream state. Learn a language, play the piano, practice public speaking – whatever it is that your working on you can now work on it in your sleep.

When you are experiencing a Lucid Dream you can control the course

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of events as they unfold. You are able to steer the action away from hostile or unpleasant experiences, and guide the dream towards more pleasurable experiences. You are able to limit, or even entirely eliminate, any hostile or negative themes that can arise in dreams. This ability allows you to virtually destroy any nightmare before it even happens.

Many people also find that the time spent in Lucid Dream states can be well used to focus on Healing or Problem Solving. Many people report that they have made incredible physical recoveries from illnesses or found the answers to difficult questions in their lives by using Lucid Dreaming techniques.

And Best of all it can all be experienced Risk Free!

How Do I Become a Lucid Dreamer?

Any one can become a Lucid Dreamer. The first step involved in becoming a Lucid Dreamer is simply to possess the desire to become a Lucid Dreamer. Once you have made this simple decision it is only a matter of time until you are capable of having this phenomenal experience.

The ability for someone to elicit a Lucid Dream State is simply just a matter of practice and training. Once you have taught yourself how to differentiate between when your are awake and when you are dreaming, you will be well on the way to experiencing Lucid Dreams on a regular basis.

There are some “Tricks” you can use in becoming a Lucid Dreamer faster. Try these techniques and you should be Lucid Dreaming in almost no time at all:

* The most common technique is to periodically throughout the day ask yourself “Am I Asleep?”. Start now; ask yourself “Am I dreaming?” now do this 20 or 30 times a day. Leave yourself notes all over the place that ask this question. Asking this simple question will become so routine to your mind that eventually you will ask this question when you are asleep and you will answer, “Yes”. When this happens you will be well on your way to Lucid Dreaming.

* Another technique that people use with a high level of success is

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this: Before you fall asleep at night, tell your self repeatedly that you are going to have a Lucid Dream and eventually you will. If this does not work then try to be more specific, try something like “I’m going to Fly”.

Some people are able to experience a Lucid Dream state very quickly, sometimes within a matter of days of undertaking the attempt. For others it takes significantly longer to achieve their first Lucid Dream. For some people it can take weeks or even months before they begin to experience Lucid Dreams states. If you are not one of the people who can pick this up quickly, don’t despair. Just keep at it and remember that Anyone can do it – All that is needed is practice and perseverance.

Lets reiterate – Any one can become a Lucid Dreamer, it simply takes time and practice and the right understanding of the techniques involved in creating a Lucid Dream State to become a Lucid Dreamer.

How Do I Know If I’m Experiencing Lucid Dreaming?

If you find yourself asking a Giant Pink Elephant for directions to the supermarket, you may want ask yourself if you are asleep.

There are a few tricks to determining if you are asleep.

Ask your self “Am I Dreaming?”, if you answer “Yes” well then their you have it – You are experiencing a Lucid Dream. Be careful though, because you may be a liar! You may tell yourself that your awake when really you are asleep! This is because your mind wants to believe that everything it sees is always reality so you may get the answer that you are awake when in fact you are asleep. Luckily there are ways to spot this. Read something like a sign or a book title and then look away, now read it a second time. Is it different? If so chances are pretty good that you are asleep.

One of the most important things that you need to do when you first

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attempt Lucid Dreaming is to Question things. Question Everything! Start questioning your surroundings. Do things around you make sense? Are the people around you real? Are animals Talking? Can you Fly? Did another Giant Pink Elephant just give you a thumbs up and then run away? Where the heck did an Elephant get thumbs? These might be clues that not everything is as it should be, and that therefore you may actually be asleep and having a Lucid Dream.

This is important, when you ask yourself “Am I Dreaming?” do not just answer right away (remember your a liar anyways). Instead take a second and think about it. Look around, is everything really “Real”? Is something strange going on? All joking aside, but it really is important to take a second and pay attention. It is amazing how many people will just accept their surroundings as real, deny that they are asleep, and then politely wave back to the pink elephant and carry on as if everything is as it should be.

Look for incongruities, things that happen within your dreams that you should realize are “Not Normal”. Sometimes we enter a Lucid Dream state without even meaning too. Just pay attention to your surroundings – Look for things that shouldn’t really happen in “Real dream or realLife”. Did a Gorilla just tip his hat to you in the Elevator? Ask your self if your dreaming (If the answer is “No” you may want to get off at the next floor even if its not yours! Or ask yourself if maybe this is one of those times where you are lying to yourself.) You can also use incongruities to enter a Lucid State by simply realizing that you are asleep.

Another great thing about the Human body is the fact that your body is naturally paralyzed during sleep, and this natural paralysis will keep you from “Physically” acting out your dreams – so you can rest assured that if your flying about the universe chasing rocket ships in your dreams, at least you will know that your body is still safe in bed at home.

Remember, when Lucid Dreaming you are in control of what takes place. After all, it is taking place within your head. All of the action is taking place within your mind, which gives you complete control over everything that happens to you, so make it a pleasurable experience and have some fun with it.

“Darkness Turns To Light” is a post about memories and dreams throughout childhood. Do you remember dreams from childhood?
Have you ever tried lucid dreaming? Or even heard about it? Please, do tell!
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Celebrities Named After Cities

Celebrities Named After Cities

In the first of the Sedona series of YA fantasy novels, Sedona is named after the place where she was conceived. Tag, her close-as-a-brother cousin is named after the expensive watch and he feels just plain lucky that his parents weren’t vacationing in Schenectady or Poughkeepsie or that the brand on the occasion wasn’t a Timex or a Citizen.

Here are some other celebrities named after cities/places.

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Heiress Paris Hilton

Heiress Paris Whitney Hilton was born into the uber-wealthy Hilton family, and has three younger siblings, Nicky Hilton Rothschild, Barron Hilton and Conrad Hilton. The daughter of Kathy and businessman Rick Hilton, and a great-granddaughter of hotel moghul Conrad Hilton she is famous for partying, fashion products and…partying. Also for making tiny comfort dogs famous, leaving hundreds in shelters (maybe thousands?) after fans got over the short-lived fad.

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Surfer Bethany Hamilton

Bethany Hamilton with her surf board

Hawaiian Bethany Hamilton began her surfing career at age 11. Within two years, she had become an exceptional surfer and was well-respected in the field of surfing. Her fame escalated when she lost her left arm to a tiger shark on October 31, 2003. ” I can’t change it, That was God’s plan for my life and I’m going to go with it.” And she’s still going!

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Dakota Fanning

Dakota likes Starbucks - just like surfer girl Sedona!

Hannah Dakota Fanning was born in 1994, in Conyers, Georgia, USA. Being a sci-fi fan I first saw her in Steve Spielburg’s “Taken”  and was very impressed with the then young actor’s ability.  The word dakota means “friend” or ally”, as used by the Sioux and Lakota tribes of the Northern (US) plains.  I chose this photo of her because she apparently likes Starbucks – which reminded me of the character Sedona who loves caramel lattes.

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Winona Ryder

Winona Ryder

Winona Ryder was named after a nearby town from her birthplace, Winona, Minnesota. Her parents are Cynthia Istas, an author and video producer, and Michael Horowitz, who publishes and sells books. Her family is of Russian Jewish and Romanian Jewish on her father’s side.

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India Eisley

India Eisley celebrity named after a place

Well known for The Secret Life of the American Teenager, India was born in 1993, in Los Angeles, California. Her father is  musician David Glen Eisley and her mother is actress Olivia Hussey. She began performing on television when she was ten. Current film credits are The Curse of Sleeping Beauty  and Amerigeddon in 2016. Three more films she has acted in will be released in 2017.

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Joan Crawford – Vienna

Joan Crawford Surfer Girl

I couldn’t find a good photo of Joan Crawford starring in the film Johnny Guitar (1954).  She played Vienna, a strong female role model whose saloon business is destroyed by local (and jealous) ranchers. A great yarn.  Yet here is Ms. Crawford who was also a surfer girl!

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Babies Named After Places

Indiana Hawke, daughter of Ethan Hawke: : “While the name Indiana isn’t on the Top-1000 popular name list currently, it actually was in the late 1800s. Four times between 1881 and 1893 the female name Indiana ranked at the bottom of list – never making it higher than No. 876. It’s had some popularity more recently: In 2004, actor Casey Affleck and his wife, Summer Phoenix, selected the name Indiana August Affleck for their son. There is also an up-and-coming Australian actress named Indiana Rose Evans who just turned 21.” – Name  Candy, which provides a baby name finder!

Zuma Rossdale Gwen Stefani’s son, named after Zuma Beach, CAbaby named after Zuma Beach Sedona’s backyard! (surf heaven!)

 

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Babies Named After Brands

  • Uber
  • Audi. Twenty babies so monikered in 2013, and seventy-three were documented as Lexus.
  • Apple! Nineteen were assigned this name in 2014. I hope they don’t get teased as being fruity!
  • Fox. One hundred and seventy-one! 
  • 9 Lives. Kidding me? They definitely will not have a bicycle license with their name on it!
  • Medtronic and Novartis are the weirdest. Medical and pharmaceutical brands…perhaps their items assisted in a near-failed birth? That’s where my imagination goes, as I fail to guess any other possible motivation for those baby names.

Tech Names For Kids

  • Hashtag
  • Facebook
  • Like
  • Google ( a middle name )
  • @. Yep, for real. Phonetically, in Chinese it means “love him”.
  • 2.o, in lieu of Jr. as a suffix
  • Vista
  • Siri already was a human name but its use climbed noticeably after she went virtual.

Thanks to Mashable for those names!

I had fun looking at all these names and I hope you enjoyed this to! Did I miss a good one you know about? If so, please tell me in the comment section below.

 

 

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Roofies And Date Rape

Roofies Date Rape And Much More!

Watching the news this week I see reports about a bar in Silverlake, a district in Los Angeles known for its LGBTQ community.

The concern is that women are reporting feeling drugged after drinking in the establishment. The owner and staff were horrified when they found out and are doing their best to keep an eye out for unattended drinks.

Yet in a popular and crowded establishment how much can they do?

How will this turn out?  The topic caught my attention because the issue of drugs and date rape is a triggering event in Sedona.  The story is about a teen’s response to the humilation, betrayal and loss of control.

Suicides have been resorted to by teens who were drugged, date raped and even had the event videoed and put on line.

For info on date rape drugs go here.   They are also indexed as Club Drugs.

And I’m watching a Grimm Episode about rape in the military as I write this. Season Three, The Manticore. I’m happy to see the topic dealt with for such a large audience.

Likewise I was happy to see the issue of sex trafficking, in this case minors, in the Starz television series about a ballet dancer,  “Flesh And Bone”.  Women and girls are usually drugged and addicted and consequently raped over and over for as long as they live.

Shannon Farren, news reporter, did a radio show series on the sex trafficking of suburban teens in California in 2014. Their rescue and rehabilitationwas/is dangerous and not always successful. Drugs may or may not been involved, but violent rape always is.

 

Related Issues

Legal inequalities as described by rape reports in the US military, both of men and women

DoD studies consistently find that most survivors who report sexual violence to military authorities suffer retaliation.

I remember reading about this years ago, an article about female soldiers dying of dehydration in Iraq. They would stop drinking water hours before bed time so they wouldn’t have to go out to use the latrines at night and get raped by men lying in wait, as a result. To quote the response when this story broke:

“The women asked to be here, so now let them take what comes with the territory.”

O.K., so they should expect to be raped by fellow soldiers who expect their victims to watch their backs in combat?

So don’t we live in a Rape Culture – whether minors, new adults – or seniors?  Seniors do get raped although I haven’t heard it’s ever been  as a result of drugged drinking.

Roofies Effects

Roofies put a person out cold. At the least, soften their resolve. Premeditated rape is a world away from teens or adults who just get drunk where the issue of consent gets fuzzy, and regrets can become a difficult situation afterwards.

Do Roofies Work

It is sad to see that the phrase is a well searched one on google, that is, many people are asking that question as they consult google or other search engines, possibly premeditating rapes.

Movies And Violence Against Women

Rape, gang rape, with or without violent beating, has been represented in the entertainment industry both as a non gratuitous revelation of such events, or as…entertainment.

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What I find insidious is the premature sexualization of children in the fashion industry combined with the emphasis on popularity, good looks and sex appeal and bullying in schools.

Abstinence is still touted as a religious virtue as opposed to safety of one’s health and circumstances (not getting pregnant, not getting gossiped about or cyber bullied).

Or the emptiness of having sex but not being loved. How does a youth grow up and learn how to choose a life partner? It is impossible to imagine standing in the shoes of a younger person and thinking about these things.

Men get raped in movies by men, too. Rarely though. Unrelated to homosexuality, because rape isn’t about sex. It is about power.

More may be added to this as the world turns. It’s a weighty topic.

Sedona is the story of one girl’s response to date rape. A sci fi fantasy it’s said.

Yet some readers might think it’s about a girl gone mad with the post-traumatic mind mush. Is it just all her delusion as she battles

 

post-traumatic despair

 

with a strait jacket in a padded cell in a mental hospital?

Or simply stares into space numbed by the “chemical strait jacket”?

No spoilers!

 

 

 

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